Most AI tells you what you want to hear. Unsettled tells you what you need to know.
Describe the fight. In under 2 minutes you'll see how strong your case really is, the blind spot you're missing, how they see it, and the exact words to send next.
Finally, an AI that won't take your side.
Your first neutral read is free. The full analysis, including the exact reply to send, is €3.99 for 5.
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Most AI conflict tools tell you you're right, validate your feelings, and send you back into the argument more convinced than before. Unsettled does the opposite. It gives you a neutral read, shows you your blind spot, and helps you understand how the other person sees it, before handing you a better reply.
Why we built it
Research shows AI models validate users even when they're wrong, making conflicts worse, not better. Unsettled is built on five of the world's most respected conflict frameworks: Nonviolent Communication, Difficult Conversations, Getting to Yes, Crucial Conversations, and The Anatomy of Peace. We are testing whether honest AI advice actually helps people resolve conflicts, not just feel better about losing them.
What we need from you
Use it on a real conflict. Tell us if the advice was wrong, too harsh, or missed the point. Every piece of feedback makes the next response better. That's the only way we build something worth trusting.
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How do you identify?
This helps personalise how we frame communication patterns in your situation.